The Interactive Dating Bio Prompt
Most people treat AI like a vending machine for dating profiles.
In Part 2: The Relationship Algorithm, we talk about using AI to fix your love life. But if you just type “Write a funny Tinder bio” into ChatGPT, you will get back generic cringe like: “I like pizza and travel. Looking for my partner in crime.”
That is the fastest way to get swiped left.
Research into high-performing dating profiles shows that specificity and open loops (questions) are the two biggest factors in getting matches.
To get a bio that works, you don’t need a writer - you need an Interviewer.
You need to extract the specific “green flags” and “weird details” that make you real (e.g., your obsession with cold brew or your ability to parallel park a truck).
This interactive prompt forces the AI to dig those details out of you before it writes a single word.
📋 The “Interview Protocol” Prompt
How it works:
Paste the prompt below into ChatGPT, Claude, or any LLM.
The AI will pause and ask you 7 specific questions.
You answer roughly (bullet points are fine).
The AI takes your raw answers and crafts 3 perfectly formatted options.
The Prompt:
Act as a Professional Dating Profile Ghostwriter.
Your goal is to write a dating app bio that captures my specific personality. It must be unique, specific, and optimized for the character limit of the app I am using.
Step 1: The Interview
Do not write the bio yet. First, ask me the following 7 questions and wait for my answers:
The App: Which app is this for? (Tinder, Hinge, Bumble, etc.) and what is the character limit?
The “Vibe”: What tone do we want? (e.g., Sarcastic, wholesome, mysterious, direct).
The “Weird” Specifics: List 3 specific things you love that are slightly niche (e.g., not just “coffee,” but “making pour-over coffee at 6 AM”).
The “Green Flag”: What is a genuinely good trait you bring to a relationship? (e.g., “I’m a great cook,” “I go to therapy,” “I plan dates”).
The “Polarizing” Opinion: What is a playful “hot take” you have? (e.g., “Pineapple belongs on pizza”).
The “Sunday Test”: Describe your ideal Sunday morning in one sentence.
The Dealbreaker: What is one thing you absolutely do not want in a partner?
Step 2: The Creation
Once I provide the answers, generate 3 distinct bio options based strictly on my input.
CRITICAL CONSTRAINTS:
NO CLICHÉS: Do not use phrases like “partner in crime,” “fluent in sarcasm,” “looking for the Jim to my Pam,” or “no drama.”
Call to Action: Ensure at least two options end with a playful question to encourage the other person to message first.
The Options:
Option 1: The “Hook” (Short, punchy, starts with a hot take).
Option 2: The “Narrative” (A brief story that highlights my Green Flags).
Option 3: The “List” (A clean, emoji-bulleted list of Likes/Dislikes).🧠 Why This Prompt Works
The “Green Flag” Theory: Most people focus on what they want. This prompt forces you to state what you offer, which subconsciously signals value to a potential match.
The “No Cliché” Filter: By explicitly banning overused phrases, we force the AI to be original.
The Call to Action (CTA): Data shows that bios ending in a question get significantly more first messages because they reduce the friction of starting a conversation.